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Supporting the Family
Narrated Abu Mas'ud Al-Ansari:
The Prophet said, "When a
Muslim spends something on his family intending to
receive Allah's reward it is regarded as Sadaqa for
him."
Volume
7, Book 64, Number 264:
Narrated Abu Huraira:
Allah's Apostle said, "Allah
said, 'O son of Adam! Spend, and I shall spend on you."
Volume
7, Book 64, Number 265:
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet said, "The one who
looks after a widow or a poor person is like a Mujahid
(warrior) who fights for Allah's Cause, or like him who
performs prayers all the night and fasts all the day."
Volume
7, Book 64, Number 266:
Narrated Sad:
The Prophet visited me at Mecca
while I was ill. I said (to him), "I have property; May
I bequeath all my property in Allah's Cause?" He said,
"No." I said, "Half of it?" He said, "No." I said, "One
third of it?" He said, "One-third (is alright), yet it
is still too much, for you'd better leave your
inheritors wealthy than leave them poor, begging of
others. Whatever you spend will be considered a Sadaqa
for you, even the mouthful of food you put in the mouth
of your wife. Anyhow Allah may let you recover, so that
some people may benefit by you and others be harmed by
you."
Volume
7, Book 64, Number 267:
Narrated Al-'Amash:
Volume
7, Book 64, Number 268:
Narrated Abu Huraira:
"The Prophet said, 'The best
alms is that which is given when one is rich, and a
giving hand is better than a taking one, and you should
start first to support your dependents.' A wife says,
'You should either provide me with food or divorce me.'
A slave says, 'Give me food and enjoy my service." A son
says, "Give me food; to whom do you leave me?" The
people said, "O Abu Huraira! Did you hear that from
Allah's Apostle ?" He said, "No, it is from my own
self."
Volume
7, Book 64, Number 269:
Narrated Abu Huraira:
Allah's Apostle said, "The best
alms is that which you give when you are rich, and you
should start first to support your dependants."
Volume
7, Book 64, Number 270:
Narrated 'Umar:
The Prophet used to sell the
dates of the garden of Bani An-Nadir and store for his
family so much food as would cover their needs for a
whole year.
Volume
7, Book 64, Number 271:
Narrated Malik bin Aus bin Al-Hadathan:
Once I set out to visit 'Umar
(bin Al-Khattab). (While I was sitting there with him
his gate-keeper, Yarfa, came and said, "Uthman
AbdurRahman (bin 'Auf), Az-Zubair and Sad (bin Abi
Waqqas) are seeking permission (to meet you)." 'Umar
said, "Yes. So he admitted them and they entered,
greeted, and sat down. After a short while Yarfa came
again and said to 'Umar 'Shall I admit 'Ali and 'Abbas?"
'Umar said, "Yes." He admitted them and when they
entered, they greeted and sat down. 'Abbas said, "O
Chief of the Believers! Judge between me and this
('Ali)." The group, 'Uthman and his companions Sad, 'O
Chief of the Believers! Judge between them and relieve
one from the other." 'Umar said. Wait! I beseech you by
Allah, by Whose permission both the Heaven and the Earth
stand fast ! Do you know that Allah's Apostle said. 'We
(Apostles) do not bequeath anything to our heirs, but
whatever we leave is to be given in charity.' And by
that Allah's Apostles meant himself?" The group said,
"He did say so." 'Umar then turned towards 'All and 'Abbas
and said. "I beseech you both by Allah, do you know that
Allah's Apostle said that?" They said, 'Yes " 'Umar
said, "Now, let me talk to you about this matter. Allah
favored His Apostle with something of this property (war
booty) which He did not give to anybody else. And Allah
said:-- 'And what Allah has bestowed on His Apostle (as
Fai Booty) from them for which you made no expedition
with either cavalry or camelry . . . Allah is Able to do
all things.' (59.6) So this property was especially
granted to Allah's Apostle. But by Allah he neither
withheld it from you, nor did he keep it for himself and
deprive you of it, but he gave it all to you and
distributed it among you till only this remained out of
it. And out of this property Allah's Apostle used to
provide his family with their yearly needs, and whatever
remained, he would spend where Allah's Property (the
revenues of Zakat) used to be spent. Allah's Apostle
kept on acting like this throughout his lifetime. Now I
beseech you by Allah, do you know that?" They said,
"Yes." Then 'Umar said to 'Ali and 'Abbas, "I beseech
you by Allah, do you both know that?" They said, "Yes."
'Umar added, "When Allah had taken His Apostle unto Him,
Abu Bakr said, 'I am the successor of Allah's Apostle.
So he took charge of that property and did with it the
same what Allah's Apostle used to do, and both of you
knew all about it then." Then 'Umar turned towards 'Ali
and Abbas and said, "You both claim that Abu- Bakr was
so-and-so! But Allah knows that he was honest, sincere,
pious and right (in that matter). Then Allah caused Abu
Bakr to die, and i said, 'I am the successor of Allah's
Apostle and Abu Bakr.' So I kept this property in my
possession for the first two years of my rule, and I
used to do the same with it as Allah's Apostle and Abu
Bakr used to do. Later both of you ('Ali and 'Abbas)
came to me with the same claim and the same problem. (O
'Abbas!) You came to me demanding your share from (the
inheritance of) the son of your brother, and he ('Ali)
came to me demanding his wives share from (the
inheritance of) her father. So I said to you, 'If you
wish I will hand over this property to you, on condition
that you both promise me before Allah that you will
manage it in the same way as Allah's Apostle and Abu
Bakr did, and as I have done since the beginning of my
rule; otherwise you should not speak to me about it.' So
you both said, 'Hand over this property to us on this
condition.' And on this condition I handed it over to
you. I beseech you by Allah, did I hand it over to them
on that condition?" The group said, "Yes." 'Umar then
faced 'Ali and 'Abbas and said, "I beseech you both by
Allah, did I hand it over to you both on that
condition?" They both said, "Yes." 'Umar added, "Do you
want me now to give a decision other than that? By Him
with Whose permission (order) both the Heaven and the
Earth stand fast, I will never give any decision other
than that till the Hour is established! But if you are
unable to manage it (that property), then return it to
me and I will be sufficient for it on your behalf . "
Volume
7, Book 64, Number 272:
Narrated 'Aisha:
Hind bint 'Utba came and said,
"O Allah's Apostle! Abu Sufyan is a miser so is it
sinful of me to feed our children from his property?"
Allah's Apostle said, "No except if you take for your
needs what is just and reasonable. "
Volume
7, Book 64, Number 273:
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet said, "If the wife
gives of her husband's property (something in charity)
without his permission, he will get half the reward."
Volume
7, Book 64, Number 274:
Narrated Ali:
Fatima went to the Prophet
complaining about the bad effect of the stone hand-mill
on her hand. She heard that the Prophet had received a
few slave girls. But (when she came there) she did not
find him, so she mentioned her problem to 'Aisha. When
the Prophet came, 'Aisha informed him about that. 'Ali
added, "So the Prophet came to us when we had gone to
bed. We wanted to get up (on his arrival) but he said,
'Stay where you are." Then he came and sat between me
and her and I felt the coldness of his feet on my
abdomen. He said, "Shall I direct you to something
better than what you have requested? When you go to bed
say 'Subhan Allah' thirty-three times, 'Alhamdulillah'
thirty three times, and Allahu Akbar' thirty four times,
for that is better for you than a servant."
Volume
7, Book 64, Number 275:
Narrated 'Ali bin Abi Talib:
Fatima came to the Prophet
asking for a servant. He said, "May I inform you of
something better than that? When you go to bed, recite
"Subhan Allah' thirty three times, 'Alhamdulillah'
thirty three times, and 'Allahu Akbar' thirty four
times. 'All added, 'I have never failed to recite it
ever since." Somebody asked, "Even on the night of the
battle of Siffin?" He said, "No, even on the night of
the battle of Siffin."
Volume
7, Book 64, Number 276:
Narrated Al-Aswad bin Yazid:
I asked 'Aisha "What did the
Prophet use to do at home?" She said, "He used to work
for his family, and when he heard the Adhan (call for
the prayer), he would go out."
Volume
7, Book 64, Number 277:
Narrated 'Aisha:
Hind bint 'Utba said, "O
Allah's Apostle! Abu Sufyan is a miser and he does not
give me what is sufficient for me and my children. Can I
take of his property without his knowledge?" The Prophet
said, "Take what is sufficient for you and your
children, and the amount should be just and reasonable.
Volume
7, Book 64, Number 278:
Narrated Abu Huraira:
Allah's Apostle said, "The best
women among the camel riders, are the women of Quraish."
(Another narrator said) The Prophet said, "The righteous
among the women of Quraish are those who are kind to
their young ones and who look after their husband's
property . "
Volume
7, Book 64, Number 279:
Narrated 'Ali:
The Prophet gave me a silk suit
and I wore it, but when I noticed anger on his face, I
cut it and distributed it among my women-folk.
Volume
7, Book 64, Number 280:
Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah:
My father died and left seven
or nine girls and I married a matron. Allah's Apostle
said to me, "O Jabir! Have you married?" I said, "Yes."
He said, "A virgin or a matron?" I replied, "A matron."
he said, "Why not a virgin, so that you might play with
her and she with you, and you might amuse her and she
amuse you." I said, " 'Abdullah (my father) died and
left girls, and I dislike to marry a girl like them, so
I married a lady (matron) so that she may look after
them." On that he said, "May Allah bless you," or "That
is good."
Volume
7, Book 64, Number 281:
Narrated Abu Huraira:
A man came to the Prophet and
said, "I am ruined!" The Prophet said, "Why?" He said,
"I had sexual intercourse with my wife while fasting (in
the month of Ramadan)." The Prophet said to him,
"Manumit a slave (as expiation)." He replied, "I cannot
afford that." The Prophet said, "Then fast for two
successive months." He said, "I cannot." The Prophet
said, "Then feed sixty poor persons." He said, "I have
nothing to do that." In the meantime a basket full of
dates was brought to the Prophet . He said, "Where is
the questioner." The man said, "I am here." The Prophet
said (to him), "Give this (basket of dates) in charity
(as expiation)." He said, "O Allah's Apostle! Shall I
give it to poorer people than us? By Him Who sent you
with the Truth, there is no family between Medina's two
mountains poorer than us." The Prophet smiled till his
pre-molar teeth became visible. He then said, "Then take
it."
Volume
7, Book 64, Number 282:
Narrated Um Salama:
I said, "O Allah's Apostle!
Shall I get a reward (in the Hereafter) if I spend on
the children of Abu Salama and do not leave them like
this and like this (i.e., poor) but treat them like my
children?" The Prophet said, "Yes, you will be rewarded
for that which you will spend on them."
Volume
7, Book 64, Number 283:
Narrated 'Aisha :
Hind (bint 'Utba) said, "O
Allah's Apostle! Abu Sufyan is a miser. Is there any
harm if I take of his property what will cover me and my
children's needs?" The Prophet said, "Take (according to
your needs) in a reasonable manner."
Volume
7, Book 64, Number 284:
Narrated Abu Huraira:
A dead man in debt used to be
brought to Allah's Apostle who would ask, "Has he left
anything to re pay his debts?" If he was informed that
he had left something to cover his debts the Prophet
would offer the funeral prayer for him; otherwise he
would say to the Muslims present there), "Offer the
funeral prayer for your friend:"but when Allah helped
the Prophet to gain victory (on his expeditions), he
said, "I am closer to the Believers than themselves, so.
if one of the Believers dies in debt, I will repay it,
but if he leaves wealth, it will be for his heirs.
Volume
7, Book 64, Number 285:
Narrated Um Habiba:
(the wife of the Prophet) I
said, "O Allah's Apostle! Will you marry my sister, the
daughter of Abu Sufyan." The Prophet said, "Do you like
that?" I said, "Yes, for I am not your only wife, and
the person I like most to share the good with me, is my
sister." He said, "That is not lawful for me." I said,
"O Allah's Apostle! We have heard that you want to marry
Durra, the daughter of Abu Salama." He said, "You mean
the daughter of Um Salama?" I said, "Yes." He said,
"Even if she were not my step-daughter, she is unlawful
for me, for she is my foster niece. Thuwaiba suckled me
and Abu Salama. So you should not present to me your
daughters and sisters."
Narrated 'Ursa: Thuwaiba had
been a slave girl whom Abu Lahab had emancipated.
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